Pioneering gay activist, academic and author Eric Rofes has died unexpectedly in Provincetown, Massechusetts where he was on holiday.
Over a 30-year period, Rofes had an indelible impact on queer thought, was a respected AIDS activist and an iconoclastic thinker whose loss will be significant.
I met Eric a number of times, mostly in connection with the International Gay Men’s Health Think Tank, which he, Brent and Will Nutland co-organised. Eric was a colossus of a man – physically as well as metaphorically, often exasperating, prickly and sometimes surprisingly vulnerable. His written work, especially Dry Bones Breathe, had a significant impact on me.
Here’s a photo of Eric, taken in Berkelouw’s Bookshop, Oxford St, Sydney, on 27 February 2002 on a field trip associated with the Sydney leg of the Think Tank. (We were in the bookshop to talk about gay spaces, particularly libraries and sex clubs – if you know the history of the building which houses Berkelouw’s you’ll probably be able to guess the connection.)

Eric’s death has come as a great shock to a number of our friends. As prickly and exasperating as he was, he will be missed.
- Longtime Gay Activist Eric Rofes Dies (365Gay.com)
- Author, activist Eric Rofes dies (PlanetOut)
- National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Mourns Death of Eric Rofes, a Leader, Activist and Visionary
- Eric Rofes: 1954-2006 (Bay Windows)


